This is an article written for a best friend who has never heard about Tantra. It explains in broad strokes, in a simple, friendly way, what Tantra, amorous erotic continence and Tantric lovemaking are about.
The invitation here is, of course, to try. To refrain from ejaculation for at least a few weeks and to directly experience the multiple effects.
From My Heart to Yours
Try amorous erotic contience and Tantric practices! It’s such a game-changer for a human being. This perspective is really transforming. You know, there are so many benefits that I could come up with. So my best friend, please, if you want to be a better lover on all fronts, not only erotically but also romantically and in intimacy… if you want to be courageous in your relationship, please try erotic amorous continence. It will help you tremendously, you will see.
Overcoming Crisis in Relationships
If you ever notice that you have some blockages or you have some limits that you don’t manage to overcome in your relationship, be erotically continent, don’t ejaculate.
If you are in a relationship and you’re having a crisis for a month or a week, or you have some fights, or there’s something difficult at the moment. If you are in a situation like this (hopefully not), but very likely at one point in our lives, we all go through these stages.
If you are in such a situation, be erotically continent for two weeks. Don’t ejaculate, don’t masturbate, don’t ejaculate when you make love: keep these energies in and see how it affects your relationship. See how everything starts to flow, how everything starts to move.
Even during discussions, you’ll start to have a shared perspective. Please share in the comments below to help each other, to inspire. Share how you applied these practices and what effects you have noticed. So my best friend, try it, it’s really fantastic.
Fulfil Your Purpose
If you have a purpose. If you’re working, you have a career and you’re very immersed in that career, you have lots of aspiration to bring something good to the world, amorous erotic continence is not only helpful, but is a must!
If you have high aspirations and high ideals, then continence will be the engine that will drive you. It will be the hidden force that will help you to fulfil these fundamental wishes of your heart to bring something good into this world.
You will see that you will also become aware of other wishes and other aspirations. When you have more energy, your consciousness is more open to perceive new ideas, new inspirations and new intuitions.
Multiorgasmic Lovemaking Experiences
My best friend, if you want to experience multiple orgasms: you want to have an orgasm and then another one and then another one and then another one until you’re tired of getting orgasms, be erotically continent. It is something that is not too far to achieve. Of course, with the necessary amount of spiritual practice and sublimation.
What’s Next?
And here I invite you to consider joining the weekly Tantra class or Yoga class, or to come to our retreats to learn the practices that will help you to apply the erotic amorous continence practices in your daily life.: https://tantrayogathailand.com/tantra/
It’s one thing to actually know about it and to try it, but to have the tools that we offer in our weekly Tantra course and our weekly Yoga course and in our retreats is a different game. I would definitely, as a best friend, invite you to these events and to these classes to learn how to support yourself in this process.
So, my best friend, for all these good reasons, I hope that you are inspired to try at least a few weeks of continence, and please write down your experiences, and I look forward to seeing how it was for you.
This article was transcribed and edited by Adriana from the following video:
