When we are very polarised with life, wasting time disappears. We devote all of our time to our purpose and our lover, instead of losing it on shallow entertainment that doesn’t lead anywhere. A certain amount of entertainment and some leisure time are very important. When we are polarised by life, the mindless wasting of time decreases. That resource of time is released and goes both towards purpose and relationship.
The Synergy Between Purpose and Relationship
In different periods, the balance shifts. When you start focusing on a purpose and begin a project, in the beginning it just takes so much energy. That is the necessity. At other times, the relationship will be very much in need of your attention and effort. If you want to nurture it, you compromise with your purpose to do that.
It is important to see the synergy between you and your partner in your relationship. Some of your time together will be you sharing your purpose and her giving you insights, intuitions, and energising you and your purpose. With your purpose, you make income, and that feeds the relationship, and it feeds you as a man.
It is not that the relationship is always more important than purpose, or purpose is always more important than the relationship. They need to find their balance.
Generally, as a man, you will tend more towards purpose than relationship. A woman will tend a little more towards relationship than towards purpose, and that is natural. Your schedule will reflect it. It is natural for a woman to want more relationship time and for a man to want more purpose time. That is a good flow. It should be a little like that, and then you stay on top of it and manage the time correctly.
The Practice of Erotic Continence Leads to Efficiency
It is important to practice amorous erotic continence (semen retention and not wasting energy), as through this practice your occult power grows. And when your occult power grows, you can do more things in less time. The amount of focus, creativity, integration, impact on people, charisma, insights, and geniality that you have – all of that is a reflection of occult power. Especially through the practice of sublimation. You make love, you sublimate, you awaken this occult power, and then, with little time, you can make a lot of impact.
Once we are strong with the practice, we actually gain time. And when you spend time with your lover, make it meaningful. It shouldn’t be flat time where we indulge in comfort. It should be intense, polarising time. That polarity creates your occult power.
This article was transcribed and edited by Tony from the following video:
