This article contradicts the old belief that being a man implies hiding your emotions and not expressing them. Discover how a spiritual hero gains effortless emotional control without the need to forcefully impose. He simply consciously embraces his feelings. See for yourself that being a man implies embracing and expressing all of your emotions, but in a conscious, directed way.
The Purpose of Emotions
Being Shivaic (masculine) and giving a conscious direction doesn’t mean that all that is Shakti needs to be switched off inside of you. As a man, the only thing you need to do is to give a conscious, clear direction to all that is Shakti inside of you.
Ask yourself: What purpose do the emotions serve when they come? This is what you need to figure out as a man. What’s the purpose of this emotion? Where does this emotion fit within my inner universe? Why is it here? What does it want to say? What can I practically learn from it? What can I practically do with it?
Passive and Active Attitudes Towards Emotions
It’s not about letting emotions flood you and being completely emotional all the time. This, of course, will show a lack of direction and masculine verticality.
To express the emotion and to give it a conscious direction means that you know something needs to be transformed inside of you. Act upon the impulse that the emotion gives you to produce the transformation. That is what makes you more vertical. That is what makes you a man. Not denying the emotions.
Do not just leave emotions completely unattended as if you were an ocean of emotions and nobody’s looking at them. Then they would rule over you and control you. In that case, you’re not controlling the emotions.
Control Comes From Inner Investigation
By control, I mean conscious control, the control coming from awareness. You embrace the emotion, you give it a direction, and you give it space. Like this, you understand the purpose of the emotion.
What is the purpose? What is it trying to signal to you? What is it trying to tell you? What’s the transformation you need to pursue? What’s the opening that you need to do inside of you? What do you need to learn from that emotion?
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This article was transcribed by Adriana from the following video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=alVThUriD6U&t=8s
